girls. But now onto some advice that most of you will actually use.

Try to look directly at something, but NOT think about it.

It’s not easy. It actually might be impossible.

Furthermore, when you are thinking about something that is around you, what is the first thing you do? You look at it.

If your leg suddenly hurts you, where is the first place you look? At your leg right? If you’re at home and have to call somebody where is the first place you look? At the phone right? If you want to turn on the TV, you look at the TV, I could go on and on.

So why is it that when a woman makes eye contact with a guy, most of the time he ignores it? It is pretty hard to look at something and not think about it at least for a second. So the fact is that the girl who just made eye contact with you, thought about you. Maybe for just a split-second but probably for longer.

And if you caught her making eye contact with you, it means that she was looking at you for at least as long as it took you to notice. That’s even better.

Now bear with me and do this easy exercise.

Look up and notice how large your field of vision is. You have a lot of choices of where to look don't you? Up, down, left, right, in between, wherever. Now pick something small that you can see, a glass, a window, another person, and now keep looking up but don’t look at that small thing that you picked. It’s not hard to do. It’s actually pretty easy, and in fact you could just turn around and face the opposite direction, nothing wrong with that.

Now imagine that you’re a woman in a bar. It would be pretty easy not to look in one small area, especially with all the distractions that are in bars (her friends, TVs, other guys, whatever). Technically, she could just turn around and not even have to make an effort to NOT look at you.

So here’s my point.

If a woman makes eye contact with you, then an alarm should go off inside of you. Out of all of the places in her field of vision that she could look, she chose to look your eyes. That’s a pretty specific area to look at. So it wasn’t an accident. Now I’m not saying that you should go up to her with a wedding ring, keep your cool. Just remember that if a girl makes eye contact with you, she’s thinking about you. If she makes eye contact with you again, she’s thinking about you again. And if she was looking long enough for you to catch her looking at you, well that’s even better.

It’s all in the eyes chico.

(Side Note: If you can’t name the movie that that line is from, then I probably don’t even wanna know you.)

So all you have to do is maintain eye contact with her for a second or two while she is looking at you and guess what? You have told her that you’re thinking about her too, and go from there.

Wait a few minutes until she’s apart from her friends, or better yet just go up immediately and say something to her. Ask her what she’s drinking, ask her what her name is, tell her your name, just say anything that you think will make her laugh and in general just get a positive reaction from her.

Approaching a woman who just made eye contact with you shows extreme confidence. Sometimes that’s all you need. Well actually, One of These wouldn’t hurt.

Stud On,
Anthony D