good time either with friends, with
a date, with whoever.
Now picture this scenario.
Say you and your friend are passing by
the house with the nicest garden in your neighborhood.
You turn to your friend and say, ‘Wow that’s
a beautiful garden.’ Odds are, your friend will
say (or think) ‘Yea it’s nice, but it probably
takes a lot of time and energy to maintain.’ Well
the same principle applies to humans.
Just as a group of men will look at an
extremely well dressed and made-up woman and say (or think),
‘She’s hot, but she’s too high maintenance,’
women think the same thing when they see men who are looking
picture perfect, magazine photo shoot good.
No woman wants to get involved with a
guy who’s going to make her stand in the door of
the bathroom waiting for her man to finish plucking his
eyebrows and blow-drying his hair for an hour. So from
the moment you get the call to go out, set the 20 minute
timer, make yourself as pretty as possible and get your
ass out the door.
Be the garden that looks great and is
easily maintained rather than the garden that looks flawless
yet needs constant attention. Woman can tell which men
are the studs, and which are the duds who need an hour
of maintenance each day. Which man would you prefer if
you were a woman?
OK so now some of you are probably thinking,
“But most of the time I know hours in advance when
I have to be somewhere to meet people. Why should I rush
and limit myself to 20 minutes?” The answer to this
question is very simple. It’s conditioning. . .
it’s practice.
Imagine this scenario.
It’s 6:30 on a Friday night and
you’re not planning on going out with your boys
until 10 or 11 so you’re in your boxer shorts on
the couch looking like shit. But all of the sudden the
girl you met last week wants you to meet her and her friends
at a nearby bar for happy hour at 7. So you say yes because
ever since you met this girl you’ve wanted to rip
her clothes off and make her moan.
This girl will be waiting to meet you,
waiting to show you off to her friends, and expecting
the same stud she met last week. Now say it took you an
hour to get ready last week, and you haven’t conditioned
yourself to obey the 20 minute rule, what will happen?
This girl will be waiting to meet you with her friends
who are waiting to judge you and either you are going
to be very late, or you’re going to be some scruffy
chump and not the stud she was expecting. Either way it’s
no good. Nothing turns a girl off more than when she’s
let down by your appearance. And the looks of disapproval
from her friends will not help your case one bit.
So condition yourself and remember the
20 minute rule, it’s a life lesson. Make yourself
as pretty as possible in 20 minutes and be out the door.
And make sure that you’re wearing one of THESE
Stud On,
Anthony D
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