just not smart. Unless you feel deep
down that there is a very good possibility that you will
marry this girl, there is no reason to stay with the same
girl in college for more than one or two months (I am
assuming that you would remain faithful).
As soon as I stepped foot on the NYU campus
I remember thinking to myself, ‘Wow, I’m here
with all these girls for 4 years. And next year there
will be this many new girls for me to choose from, and
the next year and the next year.’
Now let me be a little blunt here at the
risk of touching a nerve. A LOT of girls are very sheltered
by their parents during their high school years. Either
their parents were very overbearing, very protective,
very strict, whatever. Well my friend, these are the girls
who are going to get to college and be the rowdiest, horniest,
wildest girls on campus. Partially because now they can,
and partially as a, possibly subconscious, rebellion.
Why wouldn’t you, a charming, confident stud, want
to take part in these girls’ release from their
social prisons? And these girls are in addition to the
girls who have been wild, horny and rowdy their whole
lives.
Now if going around and hooking up with
tons of random drunk chicks isn’t your thing, that’s
fine. Just don’t make the following mistake.
The mistake that most guys make is thinking
that for the rest of their lives, they will consistently
meet as many women as they meet everyday or every week
in college. This is SO false. If you don’t believe
me then ask some of your friends who have just graduated.
Once you are out of college, you’re
seen as old if you go back to the same wild college bars
that you used to be the man at. Fine, so you go to different
places geared towards a little older crowd. And guess
what? The older women get, the more they start to get
married and become generally unavailable. So where does
this leave you? This leaves you hunting around looking
for places with wild, drunk girls, wishing that you didn’t
stay with that same stupid sorority girl for your last
2 years of college. Yes she might have been the hottest
girl, but you missed out my man.
Now I’ve had girlfriends in college,
but seriously, never for longer than two months. The first
month I’d lay down the groundwork, maybe spoil her
a little bit so that she gives it up, then the second
month was spent reaping the benefits. The third month
is spent being single again.
Now I am NOT saying that you should go
around and be a huge prick to women and make enemies.
Normally I would just keep it casual towards the beginning,
but along the way make it clear that the two of us are
just having fun. I mean seriously, there is just WAY too
much opportunity there, that won’t be there after
you graduate. Or at least will be a LOT harder then. Keep
this in consideration the next time you’re visiting
your college girlfriend.
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