and what goes through my mind when I
walk into a bar. Now this is my style, you might like
it, you might hate it, but it has definitely worked for
me and that’s not open for debate.
As I walk into a bar with a group of people,
I don’t make eye contact with anyone already in
the bar for more than a split second, IF THAT. I know
it might seem weird, but I really try to avoid eye contact
with people who are already in the bar, ESPECIALLY females.
I just walk in looking studly, confident and focused (not
pissed off, but focused). I’m either focused on
getting a drink, getting to my favorite table, getting
to the bathroom to drain some of the Natty Light from
an hour ago, whatever.
So what good does this do?
It gives the girls a chance to look at
YOU before you see them. A girl is way more likely to
check you out if she knows that there’s NO CHANCE
of you catching her looking at you. Think about it. Makes
sense doesn’t it? If she’s trying to get your
attention then yea, she wants you to be looking, but that
comes later. So now what?
So you and your friends have settled in
the place, you’ve drained the Natty from your system,
you’ve gotten a drink, you’re all clowning
around and having a good time, you’re relaxed. NOW
is when you look up at the girls in the place. The fact
that you entered the bar without that needy, horny, desperate
demeanor tells girls that you are confident. And as I
said in my last article,
Girls can smell confidence the same way
predators smell fear, and it draws them closer.
So what you’ve done here is you’ve
gained the upper hand. All these girls checked you out
on the way in, either on purpose, by accident, whatever,
AND they all noticed that you didn’t even look at
them. Girls HATE that. Girls want attention, end of story.
I’ve seen girls that would probably brush me off
if I approached them, STARE at me after an entrance like
this. Why?
Because she wants to find out what the
hell is so special about you, that you didn’t even
look at her. I mean in her mind she’s very important
and everyone should want to look at her and talk to her,
so why wouldn’t you?
So after you notice a few girls making
eye contact with you, you have set your cue ball and you’re
ready to strike. Like I said in my first article, setting
the cue ball is half the battle.
Now if you happen to “bump into”
or pass by some of the girls that you’ve seen peeping
you, don’t do what 99% of guys do, and act all pathetic
and needy. These guys are so happy that a girl was looking
at them, that they lose their composure and turn to jelly
when it comes time to actually talk to her. Just make
her laugh, it’ll make her feel comfortable and show
her that you’re confident and relaxed.
I will never forget what I said to this
hottie one night at my favorite bar in Manhattan. After
I did my studly entrance, I noticed her making eye contact
with me. So five minutes later when I “happened
to be” walking by her, I asked her,
“You fart? Smells like shit over
here. Na just kidding what’s your name?”
And after she got done laughing she told
me her name, but I didn’t really remember it until
we were walking out of the bar heading to my dorm room.
I think the only other thing that would
have helped me in that situation would have been THIS
So to summarize, be aware of what impact
your entrance has on your image. If you walk in looking
needy then it’s just going to be that much harder
to convey your confidence and poise. Walk in with confidence
and poise and you’re one step ahead. Good luck with
it.
Have something you want my opinion on?
Drop me an email. Until next time,
Stud On,
Anthony D
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