Women can smell confidence the same way predators smell fear, and it draws them closer.

Would you be embarrassed to approach or talk to a beautiful woman if you had done so hundreds of times before? No, you wouldn’t. So pretend that you’ve done it hundreds of times, and pretty soon what do you think will happen?

Pretty soon you WILL HAVE done it hundreds of times, so you won’t have to pretend anymore. Sounds pretty simple and easy doesn’t it?

So let me backtrack a little bit.

So maybe, just maybe you don’t think you’re a stud, it’s ok. That can change just as soon as you allow it to.

From the very beginning of his career, boxer Muhammed Ali said “I am
the greatest” and guess what happened? He became the greatest.

What if instead of saying “I’m the greatest” Ali said, “I’ll work to improve
but there are a lot of very good boxers out there.” What kind of career do
you think he would have had? He created an image of himself in his own mind and that’s what drove him to have such success.

Take your average guy. If a man knows that he is average, then he will act average, and everyone around him will know that he is average. It’s very simple.

When you have a certain opinion of yourself, it shows in everything that you do. If you think that you can’t talk to women, then guess what, it’ll show and everyone around you will know it, including women.

So what’s the solution to this problem?

Pretend.

Don’t lie, but pretend. . . there’s a HUGE difference.

It is very important that you understand EXACTLY what I am saying here,
because it can be misinterpreted very easily. So read it very closely.

Lying entails you saying something that is not true. Pretending entails you
acting like something is not true. This is a very important difference. One
of them gets you into trouble, and one of them doesn’t.

OK so now what? How do you apply this? Do you run around acting like you’re better than everyone? NO.

But you do act like your comfortable with everything that is around you.
Here’s a good rule that I use if I’m in a club or bar. Act like you own the
place. Don’t TELL people you own the place, but just act like it. Pretend.
Would you be intimidated by any man or woman who walked into a place that you owned? I don’t think so.

Now you might be thinking, ‘Yea, easier said than done.’ Not really. Just
try it. Because you are not actually DOING anything, you’re just psyching
yourself up the same way a professional athlete does before a big
competition. We’ve all heard an athlete say something like, “I own this
field, this is my house, no one beats me in my house.”

Well, its your bar, and no one intimidates you in your bar.

So what if you’re not in a club or bar, what if you’re on the street, or in
a store? Here’s my favorite trick, and it works.

Imagine that you’re a celebrity. Would you be embarrassed to talk to regular women if you were a celebrity? I don’t think so.

Again, you’re not actually DOING anything. You’re just psyching yourself up.

If you act like there is something extraordinary about yourself, such as
being a celebrity, then it will show, and the people around you will pick up
on it. Again, girls smell confidence in the same way that predators smell
fear, and it draws them closer.

It takes practice to pretend something is true. It might take a few tries to
get it right but guess what? Everybody strikes out sometimes.

The difference between a successful baseball player, and an unsuccessful
baseball player is how many times he returned to the plate after striking
out.

Babe Ruth, Derek Jeter, Alex Rodriguez, and Manny Ramirez have all struck
out and are still regarded as some of the best hitters of all time.

So here’s the bottom line, don’t lie, but pretend. Pretend that you are
stud, pay your dues, commit some errors, return to the plate and pretty soon you won’t have to pretend anymore.

And one more tip. . . wear these

Stud On,
Anthony D